We share a couple of interests (reading, swimming, cooking)and my dislikes are pretty much the same as yours. I would like to try being friends, but I have to say that sad/depressed posts happen for me once in a while since I do deal with mental illness. Considering you mentioning your optimistic nature, I felt like I should give that caveat so you can decide if you would rather pass on being friends or not. I would definitely not be offended if you say no :)