The Basics Name: Valerie Age: 44 Pronouns: She/Her Country: USA
The New Year Do you have any resolutions?: I'm not doing resolutions, but this year I want to better control my anxiety and cultivate a more positive headspace.
Are there any new books, music, games, shows, etc. that you want to dive into?: I'm looking forward to The Cure's new album, which is due this year (finally)!
Are there any small or big events that you're planning for this year?: Various travels, but most of them are at the hypothetical stage still. So far I am taking a trip later this month to visit my bestie, as well as going on a cruise with my dad in late February.
Any new interests/hobbies that you'd like to try out?: I'm thinking about getting a guitar. Otherwise, I need to pick Duolingo back up, but I haven't decided which language I want to focus on this year (last year was German).
What were your favorite memories from the past year?: Traveling with my bestie in Germany, Czechia, and Croatia, while seeing my three favorite bands along the way!
Do you have any new years traditions?: The group I sing with often performs Beethoven's Ninth Symphony on NYE. Also, for the fourth year in a row I'm doing Yoga with Adriene's 30-day yoga journey, which is now a January tradition for me.
Is there anything you'd like to do more of in 2023?: Feel good, be happy.
The New Friends What kind of friend(s) are you searching for?: Authentic, open-minded, introspective folks who write about what's going on in their lives and/or what's on their mind. I like it when people comment semi-regularly, but I'd rather receive no comments than ones that feel forced or perfunctory; in turn, I'd like friend(s) who don't expect a comment on every post.
What do you like to read about?: Life: what people are doing day-to-day, travel planning and trip reports, work and career musings, creative projects, etc.
How often do you check your friends feed?: I usually check at least once per day, but sometimes I'm in read-only mode if I'm busy. I'm almost always up-to-date on reading.
Do you have any deal-breakers?: Probably, but if you are a decent human being with an open mind we will probably have some common ground.
Do you mind reading about fandom?: I would most likely not read fandom posts.
If so, what fandoms would you like to read about?: N/A
Currently... Reading: The Light Pirate by Lily Brooks-Dalton
Watching: Jeopardy!
Playing: One of the very old Space Quest titles, can't remember which one.
Thinking about: How I'd rather be reading right now than working. :) (Or "working", since I'm filling this out, haha.)
>> I want to better control my anxiety and cultivate a more positive headspace.<<
I found a fascinating article about how more diversity of birdsongs leads to improved mood, so I wrote a post about it. Nature is uplifting in general, but for maximum impact, aim for a place near you where you can listen to the most possible birds. A park with a pond or river is a good bet.
>>Authentic, open-minded, introspective folks who write about what's going on in their lives and/or what's on their mind.<<
I post regularly about a wide range of things.
>> I like it when people comment semi-regularly, but I'd rather receive no comments than ones that feel forced or perfunctory; in turn, I'd like friend(s) who don't expect a comment on every post.<<
I check my friends page sporadically so it varies how much I comment.
>>Singing, travel, Geocaching, reading<<
Those sound cool. You might like common_nature, where people often post about their outdoor excursions.
I found a fascinating article about how more diversity of birdsongs leads to improved mood, so I wrote a post about it. This is so interesting, and I believe it! Hearing birds is always such a comfort to me, but I had not considered the diversity aspect. Will read your post for sure! I have a few woodsy parks near me where I love to go because I hear lots of birds, and I need to make time to do this more often.
I have added you! And thanks for the community recommendation, I will check that out as well.
>> This is so interesting, and I believe it! Hearing birds is always such a comfort to me, but I had not considered the diversity aspect. Will read your post for sure! <<
I'm happy I could help.
>>I have a few woodsy parks near me where I love to go because I hear lots of birds, and I need to make time to do this more often.<<
I hope it works for you.
When I'm upset, I go outside. It always calms me down. I can fill up a whole room with emotion, but not the whole outdoors. It just leaches away.
>>I have added you! And thanks for the community recommendation, I will check that out as well.<<
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Name: Valerie
Age: 44
Pronouns: She/Her
Country: USA
The New Year
Do you have any resolutions?:
I'm not doing resolutions, but this year I want to better control my anxiety and cultivate a more positive headspace.
Are there any new books, music, games, shows, etc. that you want to dive into?:
I'm looking forward to The Cure's new album, which is due this year (finally)!
Are there any small or big events that you're planning for this year?:
Various travels, but most of them are at the hypothetical stage still. So far I am taking a trip later this month to visit my bestie, as well as going on a cruise with my dad in late February.
Any new interests/hobbies that you'd like to try out?:
I'm thinking about getting a guitar. Otherwise, I need to pick Duolingo back up, but I haven't decided which language I want to focus on this year (last year was German).
What were your favorite memories from the past year?:
Traveling with my bestie in Germany, Czechia, and Croatia, while seeing my three favorite bands along the way!
Do you have any new years traditions?:
The group I sing with often performs Beethoven's Ninth Symphony on NYE. Also, for the fourth year in a row I'm doing Yoga with Adriene's 30-day yoga journey, which is now a January tradition for me.
Is there anything you'd like to do more of in 2023?:
Feel good, be happy.
The New Friends
What kind of friend(s) are you searching for?:
Authentic, open-minded, introspective folks who write about what's going on in their lives and/or what's on their mind. I like it when people comment semi-regularly, but I'd rather receive no comments than ones that feel forced or perfunctory; in turn, I'd like friend(s) who don't expect a comment on every post.
What do you like to read about?:
Life: what people are doing day-to-day, travel planning and trip reports, work and career musings, creative projects, etc.
How often do you check your friends feed?:
I usually check at least once per day, but sometimes I'm in read-only mode if I'm busy. I'm almost always up-to-date on reading.
Do you have any deal-breakers?:
Probably, but if you are a decent human being with an open mind we will probably have some common ground.
Do you mind reading about fandom?:
I would most likely not read fandom posts.
If so, what fandoms would you like to read about?:
N/A
Currently...
Reading:
The Light Pirate by Lily Brooks-Dalton
Watching:
Jeopardy!
Playing:
One of the very old Space Quest titles, can't remember which one.
Thinking about:
How I'd rather be reading right now than working. :) (Or "working", since I'm filling this out, haha.)
Hobby/Interest:
Singing, travel, Geocaching, reading
Planning for:
An upcoming trip and some start-of-year financial things
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It's Tina (a friend of Chanele's, we used to be friends on LJ before)...would you like to be friends again?
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Hello!
I found a fascinating article about how more diversity of birdsongs leads to improved mood, so I wrote a post about it. Nature is uplifting in general, but for maximum impact, aim for a place near you where you can listen to the most possible birds. A park with a pond or river is a good bet.
>>Authentic, open-minded, introspective folks who write about what's going on in their lives and/or what's on their mind.<<
I post regularly about a wide range of things.
>> I like it when people comment semi-regularly, but I'd rather receive no comments than ones that feel forced or perfunctory; in turn, I'd like friend(s) who don't expect a comment on every post.<<
I check my friends page sporadically so it varies how much I comment.
>>Singing, travel, Geocaching, reading<<
Those sound cool. You might like
Re: Hello!
This is so interesting, and I believe it! Hearing birds is always such a comfort to me, but I had not considered the diversity aspect. Will read your post for sure! I have a few woodsy parks near me where I love to go because I hear lots of birds, and I need to make time to do this more often.
I have added you! And thanks for the community recommendation, I will check that out as well.
Re: Hello!
I'm happy I could help.
>>I have a few woodsy parks near me where I love to go because I hear lots of birds, and I need to make time to do this more often.<<
I hope it works for you.
When I'm upset, I go outside. It always calms me down. I can fill up a whole room with emotion, but not the whole outdoors. It just leaches away.
>>I have added you! And thanks for the community recommendation, I will check that out as well.<<
Yay!